Sunday, March 25, 2012

MY 3 JOYS!!!

My fabulous husband. So loving, funny, smart, wise, and such a precious gift!!!

Adoniah, so full of life, energy, love, and laughter. Another precious gift!!!

Micaiah, sweet as can be, gentle, tender hearted, and all boy (hence the stick in hand functioning as a shoot gun) another precious gift from our Lord!!!!

I am one blessed wife and mother!!!!

 

True contentment

Last week I was reading in 1 Timothy and came across a small passage I have read often but this time it drew my attention more than times in the past. Here it is:

1 Timothy 6:6-9

Read it out loud and slowly (when I do this it always seems to come alive and be more real to me.). "Now there is great gain in godliness with contentment, for we brought nothing into this world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing with these we will be content. But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction.

 


So as I was reading this, right in front of me was this couch you see in the picture above. OH my love for this couch! I am actually using my sarcasm here (which I have little of). This couch I probably complain about at least once a week, and if not out loud I'm sure something goes through my head like "man I really want a new couch" pretty consistently. I really have no reason to complain because I promise you probably 75% of the things we posses in this house have been freely given to us!! Including this brown jewel. Jared and I were talking about it not to long ago and we came to find that the most pricy item in our house is something we bought not even a year ago. Drum roll.....our 6 dining room chairs. There was a groupon deal if you must know for Ashley furniture and we decided to go with the chairs. We are so wild!! Lol.

To think as the scripture says that I brought nothing into this world and can take nothing out draws me to a place of peaceful contentment. The materials of this world are enticing! Aren't they??? Everything around us in constantly evolving. I mean, as I sit here typing on this ipad2 that my sweetheart got me for my birthday (otter box protected, as he knows the clumsiness of his wife) they already have a ipad3 either already released or soon to be. Geez! It's hard to escape from, thats why I believe Paul urges not just godliness but godliness with contentment. I once heard David Platt say in reference to the parable of the seed and sower that the seed where the thorns come and choke it out due to the pleasures of this world is a gradual process. A thorn will wrap itself around and in a slow way choke out the plant. Seems applicable here. Just one little thing here then another, and another, and another till we are so consumed with having more stuff, and less of God and his word that the love of this world chokes us out.

As I sat there last week preaching to myself out loud it began to take root. And root is what I want. I want the things the Lord shows me to go deep and plant themselves in my heart and change my thinking. The eternal is what matters!! When we stand before our God on that great day it will just be me and him. Not any of my belongings from this earth. I (Stephanie) as a redeemed child will be judged according to what I did for HIM. Everything else will be burned up.

So how did I love? how did I serve? how was I a part of the great commission? did i faithfully train and disciple my kids? was I obedient to the little and big things God asked of me? did I sacrafice with joy all things for the one who gave his life for me? It's not about how much did people praise me for my works, or how perfect I could get my house/figure to look, or always longing for the next best thing this world has to offer? He is enough. Sometimes I have to say it again...He IS enough!!

God our great provider has given our family SO much to be forever thankful for. Just as a father delights in giving his children good things to bless them and see them smile, so much more does our heavenly father do the same for us. We are overflowing in fact sinking in his grace.

So this couch although it would be nice to have another one I will remain joyful for all that it does. It gives us cushion for our bottoms instead of sitting on a rock, allows us to have friends and family over so they can have a place to rest, and hey it's become "the place" our family gathers each night for family worship. Sorry for the rant on the couch it's just one of the things I struggle with amongst others :)

Heavenly Father, may my love for the things eternal ever continue to grow, and the stuff of this world grow dimmer and dimmer.

"turn you eyes upon Jesus look full in his wonderful face and the things of earth will grow strangely dim in the light of his glory and grace"

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Helping the Hunters

Today we went over to a friends house to help them get their new home ready to move into. It was a lot of fun for many different reasons, but while we were over there we pacified the kids for a little bit with play-do. Turns out if you get enough of it you can cover the their little bodies in it and it makes them hard to move! Jk! But seriously, mommy and Micaiah made this little gem out of play-do. Try to guess what it is:

 

 

That's right, it's clearly a pirate. Micaiah was pretty stoked. The only way I could convince him to walk away from it was to put it in the Play-do can whole so we could "save it for later." He was having nothing to do with dismantling his new seafaring friend.

The whole time was fun and we were glad to help out our brother and sister in Christ.

 

 

 

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Reflecting back & Looking forward...

These moments are so great to reflect back on. Here I was 9 months pregnant with our first child. Jared and I had only been married 13 months and we were about to step into a whole new chapter of our lives "parenting" =) no regrets! We were living in our first apartment, Jared was the youth pastor at our church and I was working at a daycare.
Our sweet girl's first moments in this world. 


Addy arrived here by means of C-section. This little girl was showing us what her personality was going to be before we even saw her.  She was breech the last 5 weeks of my pregnancy and despite all of our efforts to get her to turn, the Lord saw fit for her to remain that way, and so for safety reasons we chose the C-section.  


About 3 months after this pic above we moved into our first home in Cordova. We also moved in with us 2 near and dear friends Don and Megan Gale (best decision) and my grandmother (mom's mom) who lived with us till she passed away 5 weeks before Micaiah was born. WOW God you are so faithful!


Pregnant with Micaiah 


My 2nd birth. With Mac we found out we were having a boy. We kept Addy's gender a surprise. I remember I was SO thrilled when Jared came home from work early and told me were going to have an ultrasound!!!!


Micaiah's birth was the hardest thing I have ever done physically (giving birth without any drugs) and hands down one of the most joyful and exciting times Jared and I have had together.

2 hours before I would go to the hospital and find out I was 3 cm dilated because my water broke in bed, we went to the movies where I was having contractions 7 minutes apart the WHOLE time. What was I thinking?? I wasn't! I remember wanting to get out of the house so bad because I was psyching myself out with timing my contractions. I guess going to the movies didn't really help! haha!


THANK YOU JESUS for sustaining me and everyone involved those 13 long hours in the hospital.


My 2 babies! 


the sweetest thing...just look at that face

=D

cooking...I think? she seems a little confused. Probably could of picked a better picture. lol

playtime with dad is the BEST.

Looking forward I truly do want to embrace every moment with them. I can get so caught up and consumed with what is happening right in front of me (spilled milk, huge tantrums, squished banana in the carpet..that has actually happened..not fun) that I let that dictate how I am going to feel and act towards them the rest of the day. You know?? I need not get so caught up in the "little things" that I miss out on enjoying my kids.

Challenge: This week try taking 30 minutes of your day to just have FUN with your children. Get down at their level. Laugh with them. Play things with them that you know they will have a ball doing. Be silly =)  I feel like as mommy's we are always standing and doing. Understandably so with taking care of our home.  Try it out and see what kind of smiles you can bring to your babies faces.

Friday, March 2, 2012

Sweet Pea Accessories =D


 Hey Family and Friends!

 Wanted to let you in on these super cute accessories for girls that we will be selling to help raise funds for our adoption. We just found out today that we are now #11 on the waiting list. If you keep up with our blog then you may remember that not even 3 weeks ago we were #13. WOW!! They have really got the ball rolling over there which is great. More and more precious boys and girls are being given a forever home.
Our dear friends the Barkers received their referral about a month ago and now are waiting to receive their court date to travel. WOOHOO!!  here is her blog. It's one of my favorite ones to read! You should check it out.
So back to these fun little hair accessories...I made them a while back and wanted to begin selling them a lot sooner but just fell behind. You know things happen. Really it was probably just my own laziness. Anyways, I have sold some through different means but I thought I would take my next step by posting them on my blog for you to look at and if you are interested in them for your little girl, or you know a friend who would enjoy them you can pass the word.

100% of everything we make goes straight to our adoption fund. The pictures I posted are ones I have made and are ready to sell. The prices will be below the pics. Enjoy!

Style #1 These first 6 hats are so cute. They would be for smaller heads. Newborn- age 2 at the oldest.

Bonus! All these flowers can unclip from the hat to be used as an individual clip.

I am super laid back so if you wanted to switch a clip around because you liked another color pattern better I would be totally fine with that! This is just the style I chose when putting them together.

These fun springy hats cost $8



 Now on to style #2. I love these! Confession: I really wanted to keep one for Adoniah but took the high road and chose not to. =D  (maybe I will get the accessories to make one another time). These clips can come off too.
These hats sell for $15
These will fit older girls.  I would guess between ages 3 and up. This is what the catalog gave for sizes. I believe they said up to age 8. As always this age range can vary. You could always come by and look to get a better idea.  


Style #3These are beanie caps. So stylish =) Sizes would fall between age 2 and 6. Once again it all can vary on head size.


Up close view. These flower clips can come off as well.


These beanie caps sell for $12




  Style #4. These aren't anything new to the eyes. We have all seen these adorable head bands on girls.


THESE SELL AT $6


If you are here you have reached the end of the page. THANK YOU for scrolling through.

A few things: 

Remember these that are posted are ready to sell! If you like them and would want to purchase some you can get to me through email letting me know the style you want and any other questions. Here is my email: stepholangylangy@gmail.com

It would do us a great help if you knew friends who would enjoy these to send them a link to my blog, or post the link on your facebook.  =D 

You are GREAT! Thanks for checking out Sweet Pea Accessories!